REINVENTING THE WHEEL

Haven’t you felt that the job which you took up so excitedly once has started to bug you down; has started be feel like the most boring thing to do in the whole wide world; The once “beautiful and fairy like wife” seems nothing but an “ugly witch doctress” at home; the once “lovable children” seem like a bunch of headache causing nasty kids on the move? I’m pretty sure that more than 90 per cent reading this would nod their heads in acceptance.
We all need a change- a change from all the things that we’ve been doing. So, does it mean we can change our jobs every six months? Can we change our spouses? Or can we actually change our beloved kids? The answer to this would be a big NO.
Now, the bigger question “how exactly are we to tackle this monotony of life?”
The answer to this is very simple- “JUST REINVENT THE WHEEL”. Start looking out for avenues where we have been lagging behind (knowingly or unknowingly). I’m sure none of us are perfect in all aspects of our lives- be it the job that we’ve taken up or the relations we have with our loved ones. Look out for scopes for improvement in the job that we had taken up, no matter how efficiently we handle them; there are always some lacunae that we’ve left unfilled. No matter how long we’ve been with our loved ones, but definitely we wouldn’t have known them as a whole- we certainly wouldn’t have known of their hidden talents; we wouldn’t have known their funny yet secret desires let alone fulfilling them.
Go ahead, take a re-look at your job and find at least one field that you can improve upon. Open up the doors and windows of communications with your loved ones, start looking at them from a fresh and different perspective. Start reinventing everything and everybody (including you) you’ve ever known. I’m sure, this process of reinvention takes us a long way towards longevity- of holding a job, longevity of relations with almost no major conflicts.